What makes a Women exciting in Bed? A Good Man by GARETH BLACK

Sexuality

"Not tonight, I've got a headache"
The all too common excuse for a wife to reject her marriage duties. But does she really have a headache or is she telling her husband that she doesn't want sex because he does nothing to excite her - all he's interested in is his own enjoyment.
Perhaps he's a man who believes that in the bedroom it's every person for themselves - it's up to each person to ensure they get their own moments of pleasure. Perhaps a man who believes that if his wife doesn't have an orgasm, then it's her fault.
Could it be than that sexual abstinence on the part of the wife is not due to her lack of interest, but to her husband's lack of understanding of the physiology of women, or worse still, a chauvinistic attitude towards what should be the most loving and intimate relationship between a man and woman? In other words, a man who couldn't care less.
On the other hand, could it be that the husband just doesn't know how to satisfy his wife? Perhaps his knowledge of sexual affairs is so limited that the missionary position is the only sexual position he knows and has ever tried? That being the case, then he obviously doesn't realize the enjoyment and satisfaction he's missing.
Whatever the reason for his inability, he should know his marriage is on dangerous ground. His wife might look elsewhere for her sexual enjoyment, or if he believes that his wife is solely at fault, then he might find comfort in the arms of prostitutes, or with another lover.
So where does the man go from here?
He needs to understand the basis of a satisfying relationship and he does that by answering the following question:
'What makes a women exciting in bed?' 'A good man'
Once he's understood that he's the problem not his wife, then taking steps to improve the situation can get underway.
The first thing he should be aware of is that most woman need more time than a man to get sexually aroused. Attempting sexual penetration before she's fully aroused will turn a woman off. He needs to concentrate his efforts on this part of his love making technique.
A considerate lover will also be aware that there are various methods by which a man can give a woman an orgasm. By using only one method he'll very quickly make his wife bored. And sexual boredom leads to refusals. Change is the spice of life not only in what we eat, but also in sexual matters. A guaranteed way to keep her interested.
If a man is to successfully vary his efforts to give his wife an orgasm, he must know what methods work. Vaginal penetration; exciting her clitoris with his penis or fingers; and using his mouth and tongue to give her clitoral excitement, all will satisfy most women. The degree of excitement will depend which method is used, and will vary from woman to woman, but a man with this ability will be considered to be a better lover than the average man.
A man who only uses the missionary position in making love may not be able to satisfy his partner by vaginal penetration. His penis may be too small even though it may be an average size. In this case, knowledge of the other methods of bringing a women to a high state of excitement is advantageous. Thus a man with the smallest of penises is still able to give his wife an orgasm.
However if a man wants to vaginally excite his wife but is unable to do so because his penis is not large enough, there are products available that will help with enlargement.
The most popular type of product is a penis enlargement traction device. This works by slowing lengthening the penis which is held in a plastic cradle. Regular use of the device over a period of time, will ensure the penis gets longer and thicker.
Some of the better quality enlargers are incorporated in complete penis extender systems that includes videos and online programs designed to add spice to a relationship. Some systems also have herbal enlargement pills to improve libido and blood flow to the penile shaft.
Once a man has realized that by giving his wife the sexual excitement and satisfaction she needs and expects, then he'll never be rejected; his wife will never say NO; and he’ll be getting as much sex as he wants.